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Who needs fostering

  • Merton Fostering

We need foster carers for all age groups. However, we will give priority to those carers who express an interest in meeting the needs of teenagers and sibling groups as we currently have shortfalls in these areas.

When you apply to foster we will help you to consider the age group of the children you want to care for. We will work with you to ensure the children we place with you match your skills and experience.

There are many reasons why children come into care of in Merton and need to live with foster carers. This may be because their parents are finding it difficult to bring up a family, they might be having relationship problems, they may be sick or have mental health or addiction difficulties, or someone may have accidentally or knowingly injured their child.

All children who need foster carers will have experienced disruption and separation from their families. Some will have experienced emotional abuse, physical abuse, sexual abuse or neglect. These life experiences mean children will have complex needs and some may have challenging behaviour.

The time a child may stay with a foster carer will vary from a few days to a couple of months. It could be as long as a year or even longer, if the situation is complicated. In some cases you are working towards adulthood with children or young people placed. We will give you specialist help, support and advice to help you to offer a caring home to any child placed with you for however long they stay.

Below we highlight some key issues in our target groups:

Teenagers

Teenagers need carers who are able to listen to them and help them make sense of the world and their role within it. Patience and understanding are crucial qualities for foster carers of this age group as is the ability to lay down clear and fair boundaries.

This can be an awkward time for any young person, as they start to discover their identity and find their feet. Because of the experiences they have gone through, many young people need help to improve their self-confidence. Teenagers need carers who remember the emotional and physical turmoil of being this age and can be patient and resilient so they can get past the teenager's tough exterior to reach the child inside.

Sibling groups

We believe that where possible siblings should be kept together. At times of separation from their parents or under a severe sense of loss siblings take comfort from the stability they get from each other. Taking more than one foster child into your home may seem a daunting task, however you will receive all the support you need.

Parent and baby

Becoming a parent can be an overwhelming task. If, however, you are young and totally alone the prospect of becoming a parent can be both confusing and terrifying. If you feel you are able to help a young parent or a young parent-to-be then please contact us.

Special needs

Some children have special needs which can be physical, behavioural or educational. Children with special needs require specialist care and attention. If you foster these children, you will learn a great deal about the needs of children who require specialised support and during the process you will also learn about the special qualities you have in yourself.

Long-term fostering

Most of the children will start by needing a short period of fostering but sometimes this develops into a long term situation or may even progress to adoption. We need foster carers who may be prepared to take a child on a long-term basis, or until they are ready for independent living. Long-term fostering allows a child to grow up in a safe and supportive environment and to keep in touch with their birth families.